‘We’ve got his memories and we’re doing the best we can’
Wilkes lives on through friends
‘We’ve got his memories and
we’re doing the best we can’
Though Kent State sophomore
Shawn Wilkes may be gone, his
many friends will never forget the
impact he had on their lives.
Twenty-one-year-old Wilkes
lost control of his car while driving
in a snowstorm and crashed into a
snowplow in Streetsboro Friday.
As some of his friends gathered
Monday night to lend support to one
another, many stared blankly, trying
to find words to do their departed
friend justice.
Junior Nicole Klasa has known
Wilkes since kindergarten. She
smiled as she described him as
being everybody’s friend.
“He was just the greatest guy,”
she said.
“He was always smiling and gave
the best hugs. He could be put in any
situation and would know how to
make it fun. He was never awkward
about things and just always knew
how to talk to people.”
While they shared memories,
some nodded their heads in
agreement, some wept and others
just stared straight ahead.
Junior Justin Klasa shook his
head while trying to explain Wilkes’
death. “It was just a freak
accident,” he said.
The snowstorm that swept
across the Northeast this past
weekend presented dangerous
driving situations. Lt. Roy Mosley
of Streetsboro Police Department
said he’s unsure what Wilkes
could have done differently
in that situation.
“He may have hit a patch of
something,” Mosley said. “It
may have not been possible in
this case for him to do anything
once his car started sliding.”
With Wilkes gone, the friends
and family he has left behind
tried to explain the effect he had
on their lives.
Junior Shane Doak said he
hadn’t known Wilkes as long as
others, but considered him his
best friend.
“I’ve only known him for
two years,” Doak said. “But
those were the best two years of
my life.”
Junior Dan Markiewicz,
who played sports with Wilkes
in high school, said his friend
really loved to play basketball
and watch Ohio State’s athletic
teams. “He loved the Buckeyes,”
he said
Even amidst their mourning,
his friends laughed and smiled as they retold a story
of him climbing a roof over
the Fourth of July. His legs got
scraped along the way, but he
didn’t mind. He was enjoying
the moment.
Perhaps what is most difficult
for his friends to deal with
is the hole they feel among their
group.
“He gave the greatest heartto-
hearts,” senior Nikki Fiorta
said. “He just always knew
what to say to make you feel
like everything was going to
be okay. He was the one we
went to when things were
tough. So it’s hard when he’s
the one we want to go to now,
but he’s not here.”
Shawn grew up in a small
town, graduating from Newbury
High School in a class
of about 50 students. Justin
Klasa said coming from a high
school where everyone knew
everyone else, explains why
Shawn’s death has impacted
so many people.
Even though Wilkes’ life
may be over, Nicole Klasa said
he will live on in the memories
held dear by his friends.
“We’ve got his memories and
we’re doing the best we can.”
But it isn’t easy.
As his friend Joel Jenkins
said, “Living is the hard part.”
Friends and family continue
to mourn for the loss of Shawn
as they gather at calling hours
and memorial service today
and tomorrow.
Contact public affairs reporter
Erin Dean at [email protected].